How to Answer "What Are Your Strengths and Weaknesses?"

The interview question everyone hates—and how to answer it without the fake humble-brag

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You're halfway through the interview. Things are going well. Then you hear it:

"What would you say are your greatest strengths and weaknesses?"

And immediately, your brain splits into two warring factions:

Faction 1 (Strengths): "I can't say I'm good at things, that sounds arrogant... but if I don't, I'll seem unqualified... but if I list too many things, I'll seem cocky... Should I be humble? But not TOO humble..."

Faction 2 (Weaknesses): "Do I admit real flaws and risk them not hiring me? Do I give a fake weakness that's actually a strength and risk sounding like every other candidate? What weakness is 'safe' to admit? How do I not torpedo my chances here?"

And you hear yourself saying something like: "My biggest weakness is that I'm a perfectionist who works too hard," and you want to crawl under the table.

If this sounds familiar, welcome to the club. This question gets 74,000+ searches per month because it's universally dreaded and consistently botched.

Here's why it's so hard: You're being asked to simultaneously brag about yourself AND admit your flaws. In a high-stakes situation. Where the wrong answer could cost you the job. While trying not to sound fake.

No wonder everyone hates it.

But here's what you need to know: There ARE good answers to this question. And they don't require you to lie, humble-brag, or pretend to be perfect.

This article will show you exactly how to answer—with real examples, psychology behind what interviewers want, and strategies that work without making you sound like a robot reading from a script.

Why Interviewers Ask This Question (And What They're Really Looking For)

Let's start by understanding the agenda behind this question.

It's Not a Trap (Usually)

Despite what it feels like, most interviewers aren't trying to trick you. They're trying to learn something specific about you.

What they're actually assessing:

1. Self-Awareness Do you understand your own capabilities? Can you evaluate yourself accurately? Are you delusional about your skills?

People with low self-awareness can't identify their strengths (they undersell themselves) or they can't identify their weaknesses (they overestimate themselves). Either is a problem.

2. Honesty and Authenticity Can you be honest without being self-sabotaging? Can you be confident without being arrogant?

The "perfectionist" answer fails because it's obviously dishonest. Everyone knows that's a rehearsed non-answer.

3. Growth Mindset When you talk about weaknesses, do you show that you're working on them? Do you have a plan? Or do you just accept your limitations?

4. Job Fit Are your actual strengths relevant to THIS role? Are your weaknesses dealbreakers for THIS position?

If you're applying for a sales role and your weakness is "I hate talking to people," that's a problem. If your weakness is "I'm not great at graphic design," nobody cares.

5. Professional Maturity Can you discuss both without being defensive, fake, or overly harsh on yourself?

What Makes This Question So Difficult

The paradox:

• If you're too positive, you seem arrogant or unaware
• If you're too negative, you seem like a bad hire
• If you're obviously fake, you seem dishonest
• If you're too real, you might disqualify yourself

The solution: Navigate the narrow path between authenticity and strategy.

Part 1: How to Answer "What Are Your Strengths?"

Let's tackle the easier half first.

The Common Mistake: The Generic Strength List

❌ Bad:

"I'm a hard worker, I'm detail-oriented, I'm a team player, and I'm good with people."

Why it fails:

• These are claims without evidence
• Everyone says this exact thing
• It's boring and forgettable
• Doesn't tell them why YOU specifically

The Framework That Works

The Formula:

1. State 2-3 specific strengths
2. Provide concrete evidence for each
3. Connect them to the job you're applying for

Time: 60-90 seconds total

How to Choose Which Strengths to Highlight

Step 1: Review the Job Description What skills are they actually looking for?

If they need someone who can:

• Manage stakeholders → Strength in communication/influence
• Handle ambiguity → Strength in problem-solving
• Work independently → Strength in self-direction
• Lead teams → Strength in leadership/mentorship

Step 2: Match Your Real Strengths to Their Needs

Pick 2-3 strengths that:

• Are genuinely true about you
• Are relevant to THIS role
• You have specific examples to prove

Step 3: Prepare Your Evidence

For each strength, have a specific example ready:

• Context: What was the situation?
• Action: What did you do?
• Result: What happened? (Quantify if possible)

Template: The Strong Answer

"I'd say my biggest strengths are [Strength 1] and [Strength 2].

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For example, with [Strength 1], [specific example with results].

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And with [Strength 2], [specific example with results].

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Based on what I understand about this role, [how these strengths would be valuable here]."

Real Examples: Strengths Done Right

Example 1: Project Manager Role

"I'd say my biggest strengths are cross-functional collaboration and keeping complex projects on track.

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For example, in my last role, I led a product launch that required coordination between engineering, design, marketing, and sales—all of whom had competing priorities. I set up a weekly sync, created a shared roadmap, and proactively flagged blockers before they became crises. We launched on time, which hadn't happened in the previous three launches.

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I'm also really good at breaking down complex projects into manageable pieces. When I took over our Q4 initiative, it was a mess of vague goals and no timeline. I created a detailed project plan with clear milestones and dependencies, which helped everyone understand what needed to happen when. We finished two weeks early.

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From what I understand about this role, both of those strengths would be valuable given that you're scaling your team and launching multiple products simultaneously."

Why this works:

• Two specific, relevant strengths
• Concrete examples with results
• Connected to the job
• No generic buzzwords
• Confident but not arrogant

Example 2: Software Developer Role

"I think my biggest strengths are problem-solving under constraints and writing clean, maintainable code.

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On the problem-solving front, I recently had to optimize a database query that was timing out and affecting user experience. The obvious solution would've required a major architectural change we didn't have time for. Instead, I found a creative workaround using materialized views that reduced query time from 8 seconds to 300 milliseconds. That bought us time to implement the proper fix later.

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As for code quality, I'm known on my team for leaving things better than I found them. When I touch legacy code, I refactor as I go—nothing major, just cleaning up as I work. Over time, that's made our codebase significantly more maintainable. We measured a 40% reduction in time spent fixing bugs in areas I'd refactored.

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For this role, I know you're working with a large legacy codebase that needs modernization, so both of those would be directly applicable."

Why this works:

• Specific technical strengths with examples
• Quantified results (300ms, 40% reduction)
• Shows initiative beyond just doing assigned work
• Clearly relevant to the role

Example 3: Customer Service Role

"My biggest strengths are staying calm under pressure and turning frustrated customers into happy ones.

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I work in tech support, and I regularly get calls from people who are angry because their software crashed or they lost work. Last month, I had a customer who was absolutely furious—yelling, threatening to leave, the whole thing. I let them vent, acknowledged their frustration, then walked them through recovering their lost file. By the end of the call, they thanked me and actually posted a positive review mentioning me by name.

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I also have a knack for explaining technical issues in plain English. A lot of customers feel talked down to by tech support, so I focus on making sure they understand what happened and how to prevent it. My customer satisfaction score is consistently in the top 5% of our team.

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For this role, especially given that you support enterprise clients, being able to handle high-pressure situations and communicate clearly would be really important."

Why this works:

• Strengths directly relevant to customer-facing role
• Concrete story with emotional arc (angry → happy)
• Quantified performance (top 5%)
• Shows understanding of the role's challenges

Advanced Tactics: Standing Out

Tactic #1: Include a Strength That's Unexpected

Most people list strengths everyone claims. Stand out by including something unusual.

"One strength that's maybe less common is that I'm really good at admitting when I'm wrong and changing direction quickly. In my last role, I pushed for a feature that I was convinced users wanted. After we launched, the data showed nobody was using it. Instead of defending my original idea, I ran user interviews to understand why, learned we'd solved the wrong problem, and led the effort to deprecate it and build what they actually needed."

Why this works: Shows intellectual honesty and adaptability—rare traits.

Tactic #2: Include What Others Say About You

"My manager has told me that one of my strengths is that I ask good questions that get to the root of problems faster..."

Why this works: Provides external validation without sounding like you're bragging.

Tactic #3: Connect to Their Specific Challenge

"One strength that seems particularly relevant given what you mentioned about the team being remote-first is that I'm very good at written communication..."

Why this works: Shows you were listening and can connect dots.

Part 2: How to Answer "What Are Your Weaknesses?"

Now for the hard part.

The Universal Mistakes

Mistake #1: The Fake Weakness (Humble-Brag)

❌ Classic bad answers:

• "I'm a perfectionist"
• "I work too hard"
• "I care too much"
• "I'm too detail-oriented"

Why everyone hates these: These aren't actually weaknesses. They're strengths disguised as weaknesses. Every interviewer has heard them a thousand times. You sound dishonest and unoriginal.

Mistake #2: The Dealbreaker

❌ Bad:

• For a sales role: "I hate talking to people"
• For an analyst role: "I'm terrible at math"
• For any role: "I'm always late" or "I struggle with motivation"

Why this fails: You've just disqualified yourself.

Mistake #3: The Self-Sabotage

❌ Bad:

"I'm really disorganized, I procrastinate a lot, I'm not great at following through on things, and I sometimes just don't show up to meetings..."

Why this fails: Being honest doesn't mean listing every flaw. You're not in therapy.

Mistake #4: The "No Weakness" Approach

❌ Bad:

"I can't really think of any weaknesses. I'm pretty good at everything."

Why this fails: You look arrogant and lack self-awareness.

The Framework That Actually Works

The Formula:

1. Choose a real weakness that's NOT a dealbreaker
2. Provide context (when/how it shows up)
3. Explain what you're doing about it
4. Show progress or awareness

The key insight: Interviewers don't expect you to be perfect. They expect you to be self-aware and actively working on your growth areas.

How to Choose a Good Weakness to Share

The Sweet Spot:

✅ Real: An actual area where you struggle ✅ Relevant enough to be credible: Not totally disconnected from your work ✅ Not a dealbreaker: Doesn't disqualify you for THIS role ✅ Something you're addressing: You have a plan or have made progress ✅ Professional: Not personal character flaws

Good Weakness Categories:

1. Technical skills you're developing

• "I'm still building my skills in [specific tool/technology]"
• Works well if it's not the PRIMARY requirement of the job

2. Soft skills you're working on

• "I'm working on [public speaking / delegating / saying no]"
• Works if you can show progress

3. Work style tendencies

• "I tend to [go deep on details / move too fast / prefer to work alone]"
• Works if you can show awareness and adaptation

4. Areas outside your core expertise

• "I'm not naturally creative" (if you're in a technical role)
• "I'm more strategic than tactical" (if you're in a leadership role)
• Works if it's not central to the job

Template: The Honest Weakness Answer

"One area I'm working on is [specific weakness].

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I've noticed that [context of when/how this shows up].

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To address this, I've been [specific actions you're taking].

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I've already seen [progress or results], though I know I still have room to grow here."

Real Examples: Weaknesses Done Right

Example 1: Public Speaking (Common but Well-Executed)

"One area I'm actively working on is public speaking. I'm fine in small meetings, but when I'm presenting to larger groups—like 20+ people—I get nervous and tend to rush through my material.

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I realized this was holding me back from getting my ideas heard at the executive level, so about six months ago I joined Toastmasters. I've now given about 10 presentations there and I'm already seeing improvement. Last month, I presented our Q4 strategy to the leadership team and while I was still nervous, I was able to slow down, make eye contact, and actually field questions effectively.

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I know I'm not where I want to be yet, but I'm committed to getting more comfortable with this because I know it's important for leadership roles."

Why this works:

• Real weakness that many people share (relatable)
• Specific context (fine in small groups, struggles in large)
• Concrete action plan (Toastmasters)
• Evidence of progress (leadership presentation)
• Acknowledges ongoing growth
• Not a dealbreaker for most roles

Example 2: Delegation (Good for Individual Contributors Moving to Leadership)

"Something I'm working on is delegation. I came up as an individual contributor, and I'm used to just doing things myself. Now that I'm managing a team, I've realized I sometimes hold onto tasks I should hand off because I think 'I can do it faster myself.'

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My manager actually called this out in my last review, which was a helpful wake-up call. Since then, I've been more intentional about it. I now ask myself, 'Is this something only I can do, or is this an opportunity to develop someone on my team?' That simple question has helped me delegate about 30% more of my workload.

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I still catch myself wanting to jump in and do things, but I'm getting better at coaching instead of doing."

Why this works:

• Very common challenge for new managers
• Shows coachability (manager pointed it out)
• Specific strategy (the question framework)
• Quantified progress (30% more delegation)
• Self-awareness (still catches himself)

Example 3: Strategic Thinking (Good for Tactical/Execution-Focused Roles)

"I'd say one area where I'm less naturally strong is big-picture strategic thinking. I'm really good at execution—give me a plan and I'll deliver it flawlessly. But I'm not always the person who comes up with the strategy in the first place.

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I've become more aware of this over the past year, especially when I see colleagues who are really good at stepping back and thinking about the 'why' behind what we're doing. To develop this, I've started setting aside time each week to think about not just what I'm working on, but why we're working on it and what alternatives we could consider.

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I've also started asking more strategic questions in meetings rather than just jumping to execution. It's still not my natural mode, but I'm building that muscle."

Why this works:

• Acknowledges real limitation
• Positions strength (execution) alongside weakness (strategy)
• Shows proactive growth effort
• Not a dealbreaker if role is execution-focused
• Demonstrates self-awareness

Example 4: Technical Skill Gap (Works If Not Core Requirement)

"One area I'm less experienced in is data visualization. I'm strong on the analysis side—I can write complex SQL queries, build models, find insights—but when it comes to creating compelling dashboards or visual presentations of data, I'm not as polished as I'd like to be.

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I've been working on this by taking a Tableau course and actively volunteering for projects where I can practice. I recently built my first dashboard for our sales team's weekly metrics, and while it's not perfect, it's functional and they're using it.

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I know visualization is increasingly important, especially for communicating insights to non-technical stakeholders, so I'm committed to getting better at it."

Why this works:

• Specific technical weakness
• Shows the gap doesn't prevent them from doing their core work (analysis)
• Concrete learning plan (Tableau course)
• Evidence of application (dashboard)
• Realistic about current level ("functional" not "perfect")

Example 5: Work Style Tendency (Perfectionism Done Honestly)

"One tendency I have to watch is getting too deep in the details. I like things to be thorough and well-researched, which is generally good, but sometimes I can spend too much time perfecting something when 'good enough' would actually be better.

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For example, I was working on a report last month and I kept refining it, adding more data, making the charts pixel-perfect—and I ended up delivering it two days later than I needed to. The extra polish didn't add much value, but the delay meant stakeholders had less time to act on the insights.

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Since then, I've been more intentional about asking upfront: 'What's the standard this needs to hit?' and 'When does this absolutely need to be done?' Those questions help me calibrate my effort appropriately."

Why this works:

• This is actually how to do "perfectionism" honestly
• Includes a real cost/consequence (delayed delivery)
• Specific strategy to address it (asking calibration questions)
• Shows learning from experience

The "Working On It" Principle

Critical rule: NEVER give a weakness without explaining what you're doing about it.

❌ Bad:

"I'm not great at time management."

[silence]

✅ Good:

"I'm working on my time management. I've started time-blocking my calendar and using the Pomodoro Technique, which has helped me get about 30% more done in a day."

Why this matters: Shows growth mindset and initiative. You're not just accepting your limitations—you're actively addressing them.

How Many Strengths and Weaknesses to Give

If they ask for "strengths and weaknesses" (plural):

• 2-3 strengths
• 1-2 weaknesses

If they ask for "greatest strength and weakness" (singular):

• 1 strength
• 1 weakness

If you're not sure: Ask! "Would you like me to share one or a few?"

Time:

• Strengths: 60-90 seconds
• Weaknesses: 45-60 seconds
• Total: 2-2.5 minutes maximum

Advanced Strategy: How to Make Weaknesses Work FOR You

Here's a sneaky tactic: You can actually use the weakness question to reinforce your fit.

Tactic #1: Choose a Weakness That's Irrelevant to This Role

If you're applying for a technical role, you can admit you're "not naturally creative" or "not great at graphic design."

If you're applying for a backend engineering role, you can say you're "less experienced with frontend frameworks."

The subtext: "My weakness doesn't matter for this job."

Tactic #2: Position Your Weakness as the Flip Side of a Strength

"I tend to be very detail-oriented, which is great for [relevant task], but sometimes it means I can get stuck in the weeds instead of looking at the big picture. I'm working on balancing both..."

The subtext: "My weakness is actually related to one of my strengths."

Tactic #3: Show That You've Already Made Significant Progress

"Public speaking used to be a major weakness—I'd avoid it whenever possible. But over the past year, I've intentionally pushed myself to present more often. I've gone from terrified to merely nervous, and I can now lead team presentations without losing sleep..."

The subtext: "This was a weakness, but I've largely addressed it."

Variations of This Question (And How to Adapt)

Interviewers phrase this question many different ways. Here's how to recognize them:

Variations:

• "What would your manager say is your biggest weakness?"
• "What's an area you're looking to improve?"
• "Tell me about a time you failed and what you learned"
• "What feedback have you received about areas for growth?"
• "If I called your references, what would they say you need to work on?"

How to adapt:

"What would your manager say..." → This gives you permission to frame it from someone else's perspective, which can feel less vulnerable.

"My manager would probably say that I'm working on being more assertive in meetings. She's pointed out that I sometimes wait too long to voice my opinion, especially if there are more senior people in the room..."

"Area you're looking to improve" → This is actually EASIER because it implies forward-looking growth, not current deficit.

"One area I'm looking to develop is [skill]. I'm solid at [current level], but I want to get to [next level]..."

"Feedback you've received" → Use actual feedback from performance reviews or 1:1s.

"In my last review, I got feedback that I could improve my stakeholder management, specifically around setting expectations earlier..."

What If They Press You for More?

Sometimes they'll follow up with:

• "What else?"
• "Any other weaknesses?"
• "Is that really your biggest weakness?"

How to handle:

If you gave a genuine answer:

"That's the main one I'm focused on right now. I could list other minor things, but this is the area where I'm actively investing time to improve."

If they seem skeptical of your answer:

"I want to be honest without disqualifying myself, so I shared something real that I'm working on. Is there a specific aspect of my background you're concerned about that I could address?"

If they push for a "real" weakness after you gave a fake one:

[This is a signal to give an actual weakness. Circle back with something genuine.]

The Psychological Game: How to Stay Authentic Without Sabotaging Yourself

Here's the internal tension: You want to be honest, but you also want the job.

The Wrong Approaches:

Option A: Complete Honesty (Self-Sabotage)

"I'm chronically late, I avoid conflict at all costs, I'm terrible at follow-through, and I sometimes just don't respond to emails for days..."

This is therapy, not an interview.

Option B: Complete BS (Dishonesty)

"My biggest weakness is that I care too much and work too hard..."

Everyone knows this is fake.

The Right Approach: Strategic Honesty

Strategic honesty means:

• Sharing real limitations
• But choosing WHICH limitations to share
• Framing them in a way that shows self-awareness and growth
• Not sharing things that would disqualify you

Think of it like this: Your friend asks, "Does this outfit look good?"

You don't say: "No, you look terrible, that color washes you out, and those pants make you look short."

You also don't say: "You look perfect, don't change a thing!"

You say: "I like the top, but maybe different pants? The black ones you have would look better."

→ Honest, helpful, kind.

Same principle applies here. Be honest. But be strategic about which honest thing you share.

Special Scenarios

Scenario 1: You're a Recent Graduate with Little Experience

For strengths: Focus on transferable skills from coursework, internships, or extracurriculars.

"I'm really good at learning new technologies quickly. In my last internship, I had to pick up React even though I'd never used it. Within two weeks, I was contributing to production code..."

For weaknesses: Lean into lack of experience, but frame it as eagerness to learn.

"One area I'm still developing is enterprise-level software architecture. I've built personal projects and worked on smaller codebases, but I haven't worked with large distributed systems yet. That's actually one reason I'm excited about this role—I want to learn from more experienced engineers..."

Scenario 2: You're Changing Careers

For strengths: Emphasize transferable skills and fresh perspective.

"One strength I bring from my teaching background is the ability to break down complex topics for different audiences—which translates really well to technical writing for end users..."

For weaknesses: Acknowledge the knowledge gap honestly.

"Obviously I'm newer to product management than some candidates, so I don't have experience with certain tools like Jira or Amplitude yet. But I'm a fast learner, and I've already started familiarizing myself with them..."

Scenario 3: You're at an Executive Level

For strengths: Focus on leadership, strategic thinking, and business impact.

"I'm particularly good at building high-performing teams. In my last role, I inherited a demoralized group with 40% turnover. Within 18 months, turnover dropped to 8% and our employee engagement scores went from bottom quartile to top..."

For weaknesses: Show humility and continued growth.

"One area I'm still working on is balancing hands-on involvement with strategic delegation. Early in my career, being hands-on made me successful. As I've moved into executive roles, I've had to learn that my job is to enable others, not do the work myself. I'm better at this than I was five years ago, but it's still something I'm conscious about..."

The Ultimate Cheat Sheet

DO:

✅ Choose real strengths with evidence ✅ Pick a genuine weakness that's not a dealbreaker ✅ Show what you're doing about weaknesses ✅ Be specific with examples ✅ Connect strengths to the role ✅ Demonstrate self-awareness ✅ Keep it concise (2-3 minutes total)

DON'T:

❌ Give the "perfectionist" answer ❌ List strengths without examples ❌ Share a weakness that would disqualify you ❌ Admit a weakness without showing growth ❌ Ramble for 5 minutes ❌ Say you don't have weaknesses ❌ Be overly harsh on yourself

Practice Plan: How to Prepare

This Week:

Monday:

• Identify 3-4 real strengths (with examples)
• Identify 2-3 real weaknesses (that aren't dealbreakers)

Tuesday:

• Write out your strength answer
• Write out your weakness answer
• Time yourself (should be under 2.5 minutes total)

Wednesday:

• Practice out loud
• Record yourself if possible

Thursday:

• Practice with a friend
• Get feedback: Did it sound genuine? Too long? Too harsh?

Friday:

• Refine based on feedback
• Practice once more
• Feel confident

The Bottom Line

Here's what actually matters when answering this question:

For Strengths:

• Be specific, not generic
• Provide proof, not claims
• Make it relevant to the job

For Weaknesses:

• Be honest, not self-sabotaging
• Show growth, not stagnation
• Choose strategically, not randomly

For Both:

• Demonstrate self-awareness
• Show professional maturity
• Keep it concise

The interviewers aren't expecting perfection. They're expecting thoughtfulness, honesty, and evidence that you're committed to continuous improvement.

Give them that, and you'll stand out from the candidates who are still claiming that perfectionism is their greatest weakness.

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